Sunday, November 2

My bog

My blog has never been about hurting, it’s been about venting.  My mother left us when I was very young but I always loved her.   For many years I never understood it, because in my mind that’s just not possible.  Through the years I’ve had to adjust too many situations I’ve been in, but at the base of it all was the right thing.  I’ve not walked through this world with any mean attentions, sure there have I’m sure been some hurt feelings but in this process call living at the base was always good intentions.  We called human are not perfect but if we live our life with good in us everything always comes out good.  My children will never understand to the fullest the path I’ve walked but now at 65 I know the path was the right one because God has a reason for each and every one of us we just have to be open to receive it.  Now I know there is more I’m suppose to do but finding it is an adventure that I’m willing to take because there is more out there for me to do. I’ve walked tall and not ashamed of the things I  have or have not done, I walk each day to make a difference in one person’s life.  You cannot live someone else’s life or should you try and tell them what they should do, all you can do is be there for them when they need it.

Wednesday, June 25

No big Deal


People don’t listen anymore when someone says no big deal and think maybe there is a point they haven’t added.  We get defensive because of where our minds go.   When your words or no big deal, why do people make a big deal?   Life would be so different if people actually did the work they are best at.  As you go through life you have so many circumstances that form your decisions or responses of things in the future.  When someone gives you their opinion on something, think of circumstances that could have formed this. Opinion is just that your view.  I may not agree with it and then I may also give you my view, but isn’t that called conversation, putting my two cents in which is formed by whatever attitude you are in at that moment.

Monday, December 16

Merry Christmas from Maude


This time of year is for reflections. Over the years I have had some so called friends that weren’t really there for me when I was questioning life events, but then I have some that were there for me.  As we take this journey we find the real people in our life and hopefully we see the good in people before we see the bad.  We all have an effect on each and every person we meet and hopefully they see the good in us when we don’t even know we are showing it.  I hope this Christmas season makes you realize the importance of that word.   Love is all around us, if we are ready to receive it.  
                                                     Merry Christmas to all




Wednesday, September 4

My Summer

It's been a fast Summer.  New grandson, lost a friend, and another friend did exactly what I had always ask her not to ever do. My grandson is the most beautiful person.  He smiles all the time and I don't think I have ever really heard him cry.
I was there to see my old friend who would have been 95 in October to cross over.  She crossed over with the angels all around her.  Her daughters had a baby monitor on her and you could see the angels  all around her.  She went peaceful to her maker. 

Friendship is a funny thing, when you get tramped on you have to step back and assess the fall out.

Mad and hurt.  I heard the word Mad used but I never heard the word hurt used.  Concern is a funny thing, when you don't back it up with actions is it really concern or are you afraid that person might get mad at what you did?

My Summer has been full of ups and downs and in this it flu by.  I'm a hot weather person and I am not looking forward to Winter, but on the other hand when it's here I have Summer to look forward too.  I know this coming year is going to be wonderful because in all of the bad this year, lots of Beautiful things happened.
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