Right or Wrong where do you fall in these categories?

It’s easy to see the outside signs when your children are growing up but it’s hard to see the inside signs.  Signs of problems that will cross their paths when they are grown.  As a mother are there things that are out of our control?  Yes, please tell me how do we deal with our adult children when we see them dwindling away?  As a young person I had to deal with a lot, but in all of it, two words keep coming back to me, right or wrong.  Is it as simple as that or is there more to it.  I always said that the right was God and the wrong was the devil and I still believe if we listen he speaks to us for the good of us.  And maybe that doesn’t always mean for the good of others, by this I mean what is good for me may not be good for you.  Circumstances always have to come into the scenario, but take money out of this. We are talking relationships of life.  There is a difference between complaining and explaining but the problem is when someone is explaining you may take it as complaining because of your state of mine.   If someone sees the reason you did something  and voices it, that does not mean they are a hater. When someone listens to someone else words we need to keep ourselves out of the voice of another and only hear the words.   And that my friend is the beat of my day…